Describing the alpha female is not an easy task. However, defining the many ways she will enhance your relationship is a piece of cake.
When you meet an alpha female, you know it. You feel it. She has an air of confidence about her, complimented by her independence and intuition. While some might call her “bossy,” she is actually self-assured. She goes after what she wants, takes what she needs, and leaves everything else that doesn’t serve her. It is her strength and character that make her the best all-or-nothing partner you could ask for.
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Let’s be clear about one thing: she is not your savior or your mother. It’s true that pretty much all of us bring some unwanted baggage into relationships, but the alpha female isn’t going to solve your problems for you. Instead, her unwillingness to participate in anyone’s drama (including yours) will help you to blaze your own trails, and find your own answers.
An Alpha female will challenge you in more ways than one. Primarily, she will challenge you to challenge yourself, she won’t accept your excuses, and she doesn’t stand for self-sabotage. It is because of these things she doesn’t allow, which will inspire you to be a better version of yourself.
Avoiding mind games and manipulation, the alpha female knows where to focus her energy- and it isn’t on trivial insecurities. She doesn’t want to control or change you; she has already seen the strength within you and will help you remember it when needed. Keep in mind, she needs an equally steadfast partner who will hold her accountable when she needs it too.
Strong women like this don’t fall for underhanded behavior. Passive aggressive speaking, dishonesty, and general mind-f*ckery won’t be tolerated. Self-respect is imperative. They want (and deserve) a relationship where both partners can lift each other up during their times of weakness.
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If she trusts you enough to let down her walls, and bring you into her world, then she knows you are strong enough to handle what you might find there. She is a realist, and will “tell it like it is.” Remember, she knows you can handle her exactly as she is, and she will undoubtedly return the favor.
Alpha females usually get a bad rap. Considered “bitchy” or “pushy”, they aren’t seen as fun-loving and friendly as their Beta or Omega counterparts, which is inaccurate. It is a new breed of woman- an empowered, intelligent, self-assured woman- the alpha female.
Thanks to Iheartintelligence.com for this post
Written by Raven Fon, photo credits: girlillawarfare.com
In your face kind of woman. And that other too….
being an alpha female who is also an overt empath lead me to be suckered into two disastrous marriages which despite my best efforts to find middle ground, failed. both knew what they had and through insecurity and envy, tried to crush my spirit through severe malignant narcissism. choose a partner wisely if you are an alpha female.i have learned to be wary.
Keep your strength girl! Don’t ever let someone chain you ore make you someone your not. Be proud and stay open! High five, you’re not alone in this
keeping all but a chosen few at arm’s length. being sympathetic and offering help to two pathological liars almost killed me.i know better now.. my life is my own.
LOL
letters are reserved for men , numbers for women 😛
Darrin Stogsdill..on point!
Been there, done that. Too many tendencies towards narcissism… No thanks. I’ll pick a balanced female over a “Alpha” female any day of the week. However, some guys really need a Alpha female to balance them out. They’re just not for me.
Being an alpha female is pretty bad ***. I have everything I need and nothing I don’t. My life is my way.
I’m not in your face, I rarely even concern myself with others and their opinions.
Life is good!
balanced female? I think maybe you aren’t sure what an alpha is exactly.
Oh yeah!!!
Not bad… Its the truth…..
Really! I about to get rid of one! Or am I mistaking an NPD for one? Nut case!
“A woman moved is like a fountain troubled, muddy, ill-seeming, thick, bereft of beauty. And while it is so, none so dry or thirsty, will deign to sit or touch one drop of it.” Shakespeare. I am for strong women. I am not for shrews.
How bout this
ALPHA FEMALE SAME AS FEMME FATAL
Natashia Bertke
Put it up your ads do you like it
not a good representation of alpha females. we treat all with the respect they give us.
I’d run away from that one.
Give me an alpha lady any time men need a strong hand it keeps them attentive
You’re lying to yourself. It’s sad.
Very interesting article…thanks for sharing !
OK ! Et pour les hommes c’est …..béta !
I feel like im heading to Alpha mode and its never about being the boss for me , I’m always trying to get him to see he’s worth more then he thinks he is worthy of #AlphaArising
If you have to tell people that you’re a “alpha female” you aren’t really because if you were there would be no need for you to state it your actions and behavior would speak for themselves and true alphas know that.
Great article. I never speak on this kind of stuff but I love the fact that people recognize the power of a independent woman.
Alpha woman allows and fosters self empowerment on those around her; partners, children, family, which may be misunderstood or intimidating. Understand that if an Alpha woman retreats is because she has exhausted her efforts.
I know all about this. Truss me. I married one for good reason!
Unless ur an Alpha male
Little weasel boys who THINK theyre alpha men run from alpha females…….or try bringing her down which is a no no……
Something called egoo is coming with it sometimes
As a beta female, I have to agree.