If you want true love and intimacy, then you’ll have to share more than just your body with your lover. It requires you to share your emotions, your soul and spirit with your partner. That’s when you’re really into a relationship.
Are You Looking For A Fling?
It’s not that difficult to find someone to love. But then you must know the kind of love you really want for yourself. Is it just the physical intimacy that you’re looking for or something more? Because if it’s the former, then you’ll definitely find a lot of men and women who’re ready to have only a physical relationship with you.
There are people who enjoy the firsts in a relationship—first kiss, first hook-up, so on—and are content with a relatively emotionless partnership- for them, it’s just a fling!
However, if you’re looking for someone who’s more than a sexual partner then its different game altogether. You won’t want to settle for anything but a partner who’s both a lover and a best friend.
You Want Your Partner To Be Your Best friend!
He’s the kind of person you’d want to cry your eyes out to without feeling embarrassed about it. The kind of person who’d pull you into himself in the morning and keep you warm.
This is the friend and the lover who’ll make you feel secure in the night and wake you up with a morning kiss. He is that someone around whom you can be yourself, messy hair and sleepy eyes without caring about anything in the world.
He is the buddy with whom you can watch soccer, drink beer, and laugh till your stomach hurts. The guy with whom you get to cheer like a wild animal each time his team scores and hold hands as you walk out of the stadium together.
Your partner will be the friend you wish to travel everywhere. The lover with whom you watch the sunset. You’re going to try out delicious cuisines together and explore new things. The person with whom you can travel the world without any worries about what you’ve left behind. Each experience is a shared one for the two of you.
There are also times when he and you just lay back on the couch and watch Netflix for hours together. You stay back at home in your pajamas and order a large pizza. There’s no track of time and no engagements to keep you away from him. Just munchies, binge-watching and the two of you for the entire day.
You wish to see him slip into a nap next to you. And when he’s peacefully sleeping you miss him being chatty around you. You long for him when he is not around you.
You want to look for a reason to hang out with him for dinner. And during dinner, accidentally get drunk with him and bring back that tipsiness home. And snug close to each other all the time.
You want to text him all day long and want him to keep responding so that the smile keeps lingering on your face. You sleep with that smile each night, thinking of him. You want to laugh with him and do silly things with him.
And then you want to meet his family, get to know them by spending time with them. You want him to do the same with yours. Finally, you want to start a family with him so that you can make a lifetime out of your feelings for him!
You want your partner to be your lover, your lobster, and above all, your best friend forever. You are, what they call, a relationship person!
