If you’re not loving like this, you’re wasting BOTH of your time.
I believe in loving like you give a sh*t.
I believe in being overly affectionate in public. Even if it means that those who are envious label you as ‘that couple’ or tell you to get a room.
I believe in flirting with someone you’ve been with for years.
I believe in seeking out our barriers to intimacy and working our way through them.
I believe in forgiveness, and acceptance, and our ability to move on when others have hurt us.
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I believe in the healing power of listening. And empathy. And a well-timed, genuine “me too.”
I believe in apologizing when we’ve done something wrong. And taking full ownership of our part of the relationship. And embracing total responsibility for ourselves and our behavior in our lives in general.
I believe in the sexiness of self-care because when we take care of ourselves, we can truly be there for others.
I believe in simple dates, extravagant dates and playful dates that spawn inside jokes that last for decades.
I believe in verbal appreciation and lots of it.
I believe in investing in “F*ck yes!” relationships. And authentic connections. And the kind of coincidences that can only come from our twin-flame connections.
I believe in leaning into tough conversations. And showing ourselves as we are. And letting people know when we’re hurting.
I believe in accepting ourselves today as we are, and simultaneously striving for growth at a healthy pace.
I believe in head scratches and foot rubs… nose kisses and holding hands.
I believe that people who are meant to be together will always, with time, find a way to be together.
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I believe in transparency, and vulnerability and deeply loving honesty.
I believe in relationships as a safe container for growth.
I believe in regular date nights, connecting on purpose and romantic gestures.
I believe in nurturing the kind of love that brings you home to a more authentic version of yourself.
I believe that the people who put genuine work into themselves are the ones who end up with the kind of intimate relationships that most people only think exist in fairy tales.
I believe in long hugs and slow kisses.
I believe in loving someone who looks, smells, and feels like home.
I believe in multi-hour sexual play dates, quickies and morning sex. Sometimes all on the same day.
I believe in saying, “F*ck your society. I’m going to have sex and I’m going to LOVE it.”
I believe in kissing your partner passionately even when they’re sick. Especially when they’re sick.
I believe in doubling down on the kind of love that expands you… develops you… bursts you wide open.
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Whether you label it as intentionality, or effort, or loving on purpose, or any other phrase, it’s really all the same thing.
It all comes down to loving like you give a sh*t.
Putting in the work. Showing your partner that you care. Creating the love you desire through your thoughts, words, and actions on a daily basis.
AKA… loving like you give a sh*t.
If you’re someone who loves like they give a sh*t, I salute you.
The world needs more of you.
written by: Jordan Gray, source: yourtango.com || Photo Credits: photomicona
That’s us baby xxxx
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(Important Disclosure: Words in quotation marks are double entendre and should be read at surface level 1st read)
What is the “absolute truth” causality formula (Cause and Effect circle) of “Love”?
As a result, “When there is a positive correlation between two variables (“Hope” and “Love”), as the value of one variable increases 1st (“Hope”), the value of the 2nd variable (“Love”) also increases to inevitably result in the “limitless” state of “Happiness” as 3rd.
Selflessly,
Ps. “Love” is the best tangible manifestation of “Hope” as “choice.” Nevertheless, if we want the “best/limitless” for ourselves then, we should “treat” others the “same.” Consequently, every Human Nature pattern knows and practices in “Hope,” because the power of “Love” (as 2nd) is only possible through the continual belief in “Hope” as “choice” 1st which, both limit you to “Happiness” (3rd) as the empirically valid 3 in 1 code/pattern. _’Selfless. Inc.
everyone has the right to their own personal style. Cut the measurement by only one persons standard. LOVE is far more than Lust.
Everyone loves like that for the first 2 years. I call it the honeymoon faze.
This is great.
Ja: dat geloof ik…
really? Hmm. Funny, I was always expected to be an emotional tampon, but whenever I had some pain that needed to be exposed, she couldn’t be bothered.
and that goes for all five ‘she’s
Baby we need to read this. I want this again with you. Ruth Savage
Love is never a waste .
Amen!!
at 58 love can be expressed is ways that are not this demonstrative from a pictorial view point.
I have choosed to be alone…but im not alone…Jesus is always with me…
I allready had my marriage and kids…now its time to know myself.
Its time for youngsters to have the cuddling time…hoping they find the real one to love…
Jesus the gardener? Or Jesus the imaginary savior? if it’s the latter you really afe just alone. Sorry.
Yes indeed… The consciousness that flows through all. Love of ourselves. Then shining that love out onto the world.
There can be a time for relationship love… And a time to be solo I understand.
Really who are we to judge what makes another happy… Sad little moment you had there Luis…
Sorry.
seems a tad dramatic and needy to me but I am bisexual and gay and straight people are overdramatic and needy. I am baffled as to why some of my demographic even messes with you people. It’s like taking advantage of the mentally retarded.
Well… You don’t believe in acceptance or you wouldn’t want someone to change who they are so you could love them.
Luis is the one who is truly lost and alone.. so sad.. take care
I’m an atheist and I cringe at this. Yes I don’t think Jesus is a real being who lives and watches us all, but I also take no joy in being a bully and attacking someone who is just expressing something that makes her happy. If you believe in science, then you know that our capacity to know and understand the universe is very limited and always changing and correcting, so while I don’t see any basis to believe in religion, I can’t state with 100% certitude whether there is or is not a “higher power”. So, unless I’m arguing against religious law or people who use religion to persecute or commit violence, I try to be a little kinder and a little more humble and don’t go out of my way to lessen someone else’s joy. If Anne is a happy person, then I’m happy for her.
No one, I’m not judging. I’m teying to let a grown woman know that what she calls “Jesus” is a ficticional character. That is all… of being alone makes her happy, awesome! I certainly enjoy my alone time, but I’m not going to say : “I’m never alone because the easter bunny is always with me”
Sounds stupid right?
Of course, but that higher power it’s not named “Jesus” … c’mon ! Hahahh
How is that?
I have a beautiful family, nothing but love in my house… we never yell or disrispect any member of the family, and I have a very powerful spiritual practice so I don’t know how I’m lost and alone… but whatever… people are so thin skinned that just saying that jesus is an imaginary character “which he is” people take it as a personal attack.
She’s a grown woman, be happy! Do what you love!
You’ll be a lot happier whan you realize that everything you have accomplish it’s because you dis it, and no savior helped you in any way. You did it!!! Be proud and happy!
Don’t go through life arguing weather your believes are idiotic senseless child stories… does it matter? Really?
And seriously? You cringed?
You guys should really stay away from social media or discussions all together…
I love who I want, when I want, how I want. It’s called freedom.
Expecting others to love the way you do is imprisoning them and yourself.
some people need the anti-death cult of religion to feel safe in the world… so for them “sky daddy” (adult santa claus) is the answer. i dont care what myths or superstitions these mentally ill people need, but please keep them to yourself.
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behold: https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/d4cdc9f6f8da9d4816ac6084f24a510105366377264638f3426ffe41aa79e1a0.jpg
and another being in social media is the one to tell you straight that you’re a sad little badonkey dick who tried to be a smartass and make people feel sorry for something that didn’t work on you. stay on drugs. you deserve it.
Is about finding the person who loves same way as you do. No one has to change his ways.
Everybody hold on – This guy apparently knows more than anyone else in regards to something that “happened” over 2,000 years ago. You are very entitled to your narrow minded opinion but being a know-it-all and expressing your opinion as fact has an unfortunate side effect of being a person that your “friends” probably “cringe” at first sight and whisper to each other when you’re not around. Do you know what symbolism is? Did you ask Ann if she actually believed she has an imaginary friend or if she believes that, like you, she has spiritual guidance from something she has chosen to place her faith? Your accusations are ignorant and tepid. open your eyes a little bit more to the world around you, don’t be as scared as you’re showing all of us to open up to ideas that aren’t tangible and directly in front of you and you may just be inspired to be a better person. For yourself and for your family – and if you are perfect without all that? Let me know when you publish your book because I will be the first to buy it because you clearly have the secret to eternal happiness.