In any relationship, it is always men who get bored and leave unexpectedly. But some still believe that they return back quickly. Women, on the other hand, take care, thoughtful decisions but once they leave, there is nothing to change her mind. Women are more tolerant and composed than men.
They are more tolerant and composed than men, they never jump to decisions. When she makes her mind upon something or reach a final settlement, nothing on this Earth can change their minds. Even when in a relationship, if she has come to the conclusion of a breakup after being observant over a long time, she said is firm. Nothing can turn her back.
Take a look at some of the reasons why it is so difficult to change her mind.
1. Her decision was never easy
It was very hard for her to break up with you. You have been careless and took things too lightly. So when she has finally passed her decision, even your tears cannot bring her back to you. She has a strong personality and nothing can break her.
2. She will never come back to you
You think women are weak, they are emotional and they easily change their opinions. You are wrong. She knows you aren’t going to change, she knows you are mean and do not love her. She is smart to judge your character well in time.
3. There isn’t any reason for her to stay
You have never loved her enough. You have always taken her for granted. You always undermined her abilities; you have broken her self-esteem. You have hurt her.
4. She will get over you gradually
It will take time but she will slowly erase all the memories about you. She may suffer, she may feel the need to love but she will love herself. She is strong, she is passionate.
5. She will learn to take charge of her own emotions
I know, emotions can take a huge toll on the human heart, after a breakup. But she has the power to control them. She is emotional but I’d emotionally mature. She will gradually learn to forgive herself because this experience was a big lesson for her. She will also forgive you for being so hurtful and unfaithful.
6. She has learned to look forward to the future
She has her own life. She is definitely going to do good. To recall how you fell in love with your previous relations if effective only when you display what you’ve learnt through your own actions in your coming days. She will not revisit her long gone memories more than once.
7. She will start fresh
A new beginning will be extremely beneficial for her. She knows someone will love her to the moon and back. She won’t contemplate on her failed relationship but she knows if love is genuine, it will return back to be experienced again.
8. She will try to secure her new relationship
She has learned a lot from her past days. Now she knows how to keep her present secure. Both the partners have to be overcome their insecurities, learn to accept each other, pay attention to every big and small detail and commit to taking things ahead. Only then their bond will flourish.