1. Alone means loneliness
“Alone” does not always mean loneliness, and “relationship” does not always mean happiness. Being alone does not cause so much solitude as a wrong relationship. If things don’t go well, take a break and spend some time with the most important person – yourself. Look first within yourself. Appreciate how much value you have as a person and the next time you are in a relationship that is sinking, you are ready to swim safely.
2. Happiness comes when you have what you want
To be happy does not mean that you do not want more, but may mean that you are grateful for what you have and in addition expect the good that will come. Sometimes we are so busy trying to achieve something big that we fail to notice the little things that actual matter in life. Appreciate the value of what you have, these are the good days that you will want to remember!
3. Pain is something you can see
Never underestimate the pain that someone hides. To be honest, we all have problems and give our personal race. Some people are better at hiding their problems. It is not possible to know what happens behind closed doors. Judging someone is an unnecessary waste of time and energy. If you have time to judge other people, then you have too much time available. Try doing something more meaningful.
4. Life can be like we want
It is our own thoughts that hurt us. Just bearing in mind our feelings honestly, it can be very healing. We always have the freedom to choose how we respond to what life brings us. Forget how you imagine it should be your life and accept real life. Change what you can change, change your thoughts about what you cannot change, and go ahead.
5. We are supposed to be and act in a particular way
When we stop comparing ourselves with other versions of ourselves, real or fantastic, and when we stop to compare ourselves with other people, real or imaginary, then we will find true inner peace.
6. Only a privileged few are able to live a wonderful life
If you say every morning when you wake up, “Yes today is going to be a great day.”
And every afternoon, you find a reason to say, “Yes today is a great day.”
And every night you have a reason to say, “Yeah today was a great day.”
Then one day, after many moons, when you review your life will smile and say, “Yes I have lived a great life.”
7. The difficult days are unnecessary
Sometimes things can go wrong before they start going well. Sometimes you need to remove the wrong people, so people you want, come to your life. Sometimes you need to feel powerless, to understand what it is like to be truly powerful. Sometimes you need to encounter many people who you like, before you find the one you love. We must learn to face the worse and recognize that constitute a helpful learning experience.
8. If you are strong, you do not feel pain
Stronger people are the ones who feel the pain and accept it, learn from this and manage to overcome. You need to have courage to request a time-out, to pull yourself together and then to return to the ring to fight like I never before.
9. Saying something you do not believe
Feel the love before you say, “I love you.” Feel the gratitude before you say, “Thanks.” Feel humility before you say, “I’m sorry.” Feel the release before you say, “I forgive you”. If you feel really something it requires fewer words to express and target straight into the heart of another
10. Dreaming is a waste of time
The greatest gifts are invisible for the eyes, but the heart feels deeply. What we see is not always the full picture. The imagination allows us to see what is beneath the surface – to formalize the full image with information that is not visible to the eye. Somewhere, something very beautiful, waiting for you to find, just have dreams enough to discover it.
By Johnny Stones, Truth Inside Of You.
