In an age of sex-obsessed commitment-phobes, finding true love can at times seem impossible. But don’t worry, it IS out there. You just need to be patient and never settle for less than what you deserve. For your own happiness and sanity, never accept someone who doesn’t do these 10 things:
Be someone who texts you when it matters
Have you ever fallen for a guy who doesn’t text you for days and then suddenly at 1 am at night, he texts you? Don’t fall for this. He is only texting you when it suits him and he’s looking for action. In other words, he’s selfish and you deserve someone who’s actually willing to make an effort.
Be with someone who actually makes time for you.
If they’re not willing to make a concrete plan with you, then they’re not serious. They simply only want to see you when it’s good for them. You deserve someone who is willing to put in the time to make beautiful memories with you.
Be with someone who tells you he misses you.
If he doesn’t text saying he’s looking forward to seeing you, or that he misses you, then you’re not a priority in his life. True love means that you both can’t wait to see each other and you will make time to do so. Never accept a guy who is just “meh” about you.
Be with someone who takes actions on his feelings.
It can be hard to express your true feelings, but the real hint about how they feel about you is how they act. Pay attention to what he does. If he goes out of his way to protect you and make you feel like the luckiest girl in the world, he’s a keeper.
Be with someone who actually cares about your feelings.
If he can’t deal with you when you’re upset, then he’s not willing to put the necessary effort in. You deserve someone who emphasizes with you when you’re feeling down.
Be someone who brags about you.
If you hear him complimenting you when he’s speaking to his friends, you’ve found someone who is actually proud of you. He loves you for you are and will support you to achieve even greater things.
Be with someone who protects you when it matters.
If a guy isn’t willing to stand up for you when the shit hits the fan, then he’s simply not worthy of your love. You deserve a guy who lets you know that you’re in this together and that he’ll support you even in the tough times.
Be with someone who makes you feel good.
Pretty obvious, right? But if you find that he constantly puts you down or makes you feel uneasy, then that’s a huge warning sign. You’d be surprised how many people accept this. Don’t! You deserve someone who makes you feel incredible.
Be with someone who accepts and even compliments your flaws.
If he isn’t willing to accept your flaws then he doesn’t love you for who you are. Your true love will not only accept your imperfections but will find a way to love them as well.
Be with someone who NEEDS you in their life.
Forget about assholes who don’t respect your time or your worth. You know you who you are and you deserve someone who will treat you right. The only way you’ll find true love is if you cut out the trash to make room for the guys who bend over backward just to be with you.
